watch female porn stars' facial expressions and you know about the degree of pleasure they have when submitting to facials.

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Bravo Ryan, possibly the best comment I have ever seen on the net, incredibly well done thanks.

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Im sorry but Ryan is totally into himself way to much! I agree that to each his/her own as long as they are both into the acts that is pleasurable to each. But, as a person that has been around a lot of porn I generally don't find that a man pouring his cum on a girls face is sexy at all. I truly believe that the girl that lets a man do that... Is just putting up with an act that came out of porn videos I remember first observing this in the sixties when videos were on a 16mm reel and thought odd of it then and now its just the accepted. again... yes some women may like it. if it is hot to her partner and will be submissive to that act for him. But come on lets be real about this. this is an act of domination and submission, ask the girl to be honest **really honest about letting spunk splatter all over her face. I believe most would say other areas of the body sure but the face hell they are now getting off on girls holding there eyes wide open and letting the guy pour cum directly into it.

Thank you Anon for your comment, I think your right and lace and ryan did not get cindy gallops point there... sadly :( She does not want to judge anyone for liking certain things. She just stands for mutual respect, understanding and multiple joy arising from that. I agree on every point with you, Anon! :)

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Its the end of the ritual. Its the period of the love sentence. It means "woman i came in your face, i blessed you with my life juice. You belong to me now. We are one now". p.s.: if you dont like facials please say it before sex. dont yell after i came. its pointless.

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mRnDkl Really appreciate you sharing this article post.Really thank you! Really Cool.

scroll way down and read "Ryan" 's comment..LOVE IT AND EVERYTHING HE SAID!!!

scroll way down and read "Ryan" 's comment..LOVE IT AND EVERYTHING HE SAID!!!

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I think it's ok if you don't expect it, can I get the shirt now?

Oh thank you guys so very much that you cleared this platform from abusement by people sharing gross hardcore and pedohile links! Now the comments are finally full of valuable opinions and feature Ms. Gallops puposes much better! I love it! Thanks <3

I think a sexy thing is: You sit on the table next to your love. You open your bloody bills, and you feel entirely happy, because your love sits next to you. Just him and your bills and you are the happiest person ever.

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Aw man, guys, most porn really ain't enjoyable for girls. F. e. what do you think is harder: Finding a vid WITHOUT anal or finding a vid WITH sanitary conditions regarded? What has this all come to...? T___T

This is totally true. I (personally) enjoy it sometimes - but it took a long time, until I trusted my bf enough to let him (and not conceive it as a gesture of humiliation, but as a quite enjoyable part of playing). I would never let a as-good-as-stranger come on my face. Ever.

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Finally a site that I can see eye to eye with .. I first noticed about 7 yrs ago when I started to date younger men . I learned a lot of new porn websites "Very interesting" !! Because im from the days where me and my girl friends use to just go to the porn store and buy a video for $35 and go home to watch the video and try out our new toy. Now of days u can watch 30 videos for free in a click of a button . So I can see how all this hardcore porn is seeing by the wrong eyes . Monkey see monkey do . Now a days younger guy wants to try out all this freaky stuff from the porn , that I've already done and realized I don't like . And not in the mood to be anyones human guinea pig or blow up doll . I've done it all but that's apart of growing and getting to know what lets you orgasim at maximum capacity :) but the most effect orgasim is when it's with some one that you truly love . That might sound lame but it's the truth .

I do not like it, mostly after I just washed my hair. Would you like to have someone just splatter anything in your face (much worse ummmm jizz)

Yea so I am in my 20's so I completely disagree with Ryan. I LOVE sex but I've been called a "nymphomaniac" because I would prefer 3x a day on average but than called a "prude" because I don't like porn. And, although I love to give bj's, I think "facials" are ridiculous and the porn I have seen in the past? Most of them end with the girl licking the cum and spitting it everywhere...yuck...and wiping it all over their face. Sorry but that is disgusting and just because I'm "young" and was born in a different "era" than the creator of this site that shouldn't place me in a category because hey lol everyone is different. In fact? My parents who are both almost 30 years my senior have had more partners than me. And, no I am not religious so this isn't why. Infact, THEY are lol.

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Every one likes different things for different reasonsa I never have preconceived notions. It's kind of a learn as you go w each person you encounter. You may like something w one and something else w another. Personally i would bust on all of your faces for being such prudes. I prefer a girl that swallows because hey. It's protein. & 100% fat free. Don't waste my jizz : ). Relationships can get ultra boring so sacrifice & an open mind is a need. Single life canter freak'n boring too so love is a need and there is no hotter sex than w love sprinkled w an open mind and or other oriface lol

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I can not stand it when a man spits on a woman to "lube her up" in porn. A man ever spits on me in any capacity, and I would feel inclined to deck him not fuck him. I am sick an tired of BDSM on film showing one partner weaker then the other. What about two strong caring people exploring something safe sane consensual and loving? She ties him up but checks on him often... he gets a cramp in a leg and they have to change positions. I know its fantasy, but real touches makes the fantasy more believable.

I can not stand it when a man spits on a woman to "lube her up" in porn. A man ever spits on me in any capacity, and I would feel inclined to deck him not fuck him. I am sick an tired of BDSM on film showing one partner weaker then the other. What about two strong caring people exploring something safe sane consensual and loving? She ties him up but checks on him often... he gets a cramp in a leg and they have to change positions. I know its fantasy, but real touches makes the fantasy more believable.

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some of the thing they do in porn really disgust me like when the shots keeps going to the guys face at random times the girl swallowing cum when the guy fingers the asshole or has anal and puts his member or finger into the girls mouth

some of the thing they do in porn really disgust me like when the shots keeps going to the guys face at random times the girl swallowing cum when the guy fingers the asshole or has anal and puts his member or penis into the girls penis Ps I am a man

some of the thing they do in porn really disgust me like when the shots keeps going to the guys face at random times the girl swallowing cum when the guy fingers the asshole or has anal and puts his member or penis into the girls penis Ps I am a man

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I like this conversation. I would like to add the fact that I like sex on my period. I love it. It feels amazing and my body is open and achy and wonderfully aroused at the same time. My partner does not, however enjoy sex on My period. It's messy, vulnerable, and confusing for him. I find this upsetting and at the same time I find it disappointing. I am interested and so very open and excited about exploring anything that turns my partner on...anything. I am a woman and I have dated both men and women. I would like to propose that sexual intercourse during a woman's period can be and should be cross examined within this discussion. Men ejaculating on another's face can be interpreted in many ways...I love it...and I love and encourage sexual exploration and satisfaction on both sides of relationship. As someone who has been in relationships with women for nearly a decade, I have not been faced with any opposition to sex while menstruating, however, since my current partner I am faced with him losing erection on more than one occasion while I was menstruating. This seems to be a heterosexual approach to porn but I'd like to invite any men who experience men "cumming" on their face to speak up. I love both a woman and a man having an orgasm anywhere near my face...and I will admit that much of that enjoyment comes from the expectation that my pleasure might be fancied as well.

I see how you're trying to be fair to all the people who pretend like they're so sexually free and modern that they just love it when men come on their face. You should have just said it like it is - real world: women don't like it when men come on their face. That's the truth. Maybe a few people like it, but the rest of the girls do it because they want the guy to like them, which doesn't have a lot to do with sexual pleasure for the woman. Pretty fucking sad.

@Ryan, I understand what you are saying but it seems that you are focusing on the point of "some people like facials, some don't" yet criticizing the site and speaker as a whole. The site and the TEDtalk appear to be about educating young people, not judging people for what they may in fact enjoy. I do agree that facials (as well as dirty talk, gagging and anal) are a preference for some BUT guys shouldn't assume that most ladies are into it. As a twentysomething female, I have had experiences with guys that make a lot of other mistakes/assumptions mentioned throughout the site. @ Lace - The points speaking about hairless expectations, only genitals touching, no clitoral stimulation and a quick fingerbanging as foreplay have nothing to with preferences and therefore nothing to do with being openminded. They refer to boys that possess a complete lack of knowledge of the female anatomy. In porn, generally, women are ready to go with some rough fingering or a few minutes of oral sex (after giving a lengthy blowjob)-- not the case in real world-- even if you're in the mood, most women need more attention that that. Good for you two if you're men that don't have these issues (not sarcastic, I'm serious, GOOD FOR YOU!). There are definitely many young dudes out there that are mistaken on how real sex actually works. Please don't criticize Cindy Gallop for being "old-fashioned", that is not the case. Believe me, women have not evolved in the last 20-30 years into sopping wet pornstars, ready for sex at a moments notice that cum while having it in any and all positions.

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I agree with the previous comment (by Ryan). It is interesting to state that porn has somehow served as the primary catalyst for our views of what "sex is" to be changed drastically. Isn't change necessary for progression, and isn't it really just a result of our natural ability to revolutionize the way we do things? Are we forgetting that the ideas/acts displayed in porn are the direct result of an individual's natural ability to advance through current feelings, beliefs, and behaviors? Reality is, these 'expectations' have not only manifested themselves in the porn industry (and are put on men as well), but in our media as a whole. Do you really feel that the representations in porn are WORST than that of which is represented in the rest of the media; the largest bearer of true ideological beliefs? Maybe all of these forms of media also represent advancement, but if we want to nitpick where it should be changed because of 'unrealistic' or 'idealized' expectations, I think porn wouldn't be the first barrack to break down. It's the mindset of our society as a whole that might need to be changed rather than trying to stuff our sexual advancements into the dark. Personally, I love porn. I like having a clean-shaven vagina, giving head, giving and receiving rim jobs, and receiving facials. Is it because of my own inability to deny the demands of a porn-watching-sex-fanatic, or is it because I like those things as well? Are the demands really unrealistic, or is it just natural and inquisitive sexual exploration? I believe it to be the latter. I'd like to believe we have a choice in the matter rather than it being due to porn-fanaticism induced expectations of how we should behave. I like the example Ryan gave with "Make Paper, not Computer" because it represents a fundamental aspect of this argument. Advancements are inevitable as long as we are, at the very least, a functioning and somewhat intelligent society. Unfortunately, these changes may not sit right with everyone, but being open minded can make a world of difference.

I watched your speech on the TedTalks special and I wanted to share my personal views with you. Hopefully you will find them insightful. I'm 32 years old, and a successful business professional. I majored in Communications and World-Views during my time at University, and have never stopped educating myself on the subjects that I find most interesting, sex and pop culture being one of them. At my age, and in my profession, I've had the luxury to date both young and older women. The age range of those I sleep with is between 19 and 40. Over the years I've noticed a VAST difference between those two brackets of age groups, and I understand exactly where your coming from. You immediately struck me as the type of woman I've had my own experiences with, mostly the older women who are of a certain time period based on their history, age, and association with the era they grew up in. These older women were more likely to A) Not shave their vaginal area much. B) Be less aggressive on oral sex. C) Be more into 'love-making' than fucking. D) Be more conservative on the facials. etc. In contrast, most, if not all of the younger girls are the complete opposite, doing all those things as if it's natural and second nature. My point is that each person is a DIRECT product of their association to the era they came to sexual maturity in. And this thesis basically makes your campaign look problematic and conflicted. You hold the position that this change in what men currently expect of a woman is due mainly to the accessibility to pornography in this day and age. I DO agree with you. But I also believe its part of a bigger picture. Every aspect of the world we live in, this earth, our mother nature, animals, insects, humans, all evolve. Technology evolves. The way we think evolves. Medicine and disease evolve and adapt and change. Our world beliefs evolve. etc. This is the product of the ticking concept of time. And it's natural. This means that our sexuality evolves, and as you know, has evolved throughout centuries in different ways. At one time sex was entirely taboo. Speaking opening about sexual acts in medieval times could get you committed or stoned. However, in 2012, it's perfectly acceptable. If we still practiced the sexual norm from the old days, it would be disgusting by today's standards. People didn't wash well. Certainly nothing was shaved. And their sexual techniques weren't explored much, since there was nowhere to really learn from, so how great could it have been, especially when the church and state force you to only screw for procreation! Not to mention people died by the thousands every day of syphilis and gonorrhea. Yes, it was a different time. Women were fat and chubby, which was a sign of wealth and men found it attractive. In the 21st century, however, it is thin women that are generally attractive and 'beautiful'. If you're so caught up on maintaining the state of the old, why are you not also promoting fatter women? Sloppier women? Women who don't bath? Disease? etc. That was a time period too. But NOT the one YOU were born in, so YOU have no personal attachment to it. My point here is that you are caught up in your own era. What was popular at the time you grew up and learned your sexual behaviour is where you stayed. And that's true for most people. A friend of mine is married to a 50-year old woman. He's 34. Do you think she's taking facials? Do you think her friends are? Hell no. This wasn't common practice when she was in high school, so to her it's disgusting and weird. But, most of my friends dating younger girls do take them. And enjoy them. Because it's common nowadays, and they're conditioned to it. Someone recently said to me "You know, a blow job is the new kiss good night these days". Is it wrong just because it's new? Is that expression of sexuality something to be scared of if those doing it really enjoy expressing themselves that way? Just because MY mother didnt do that when she was 21 doesn't mean it's wrong. In fact, I feel sorry for my dad growing up in the 60's and 70's! Kids these days have it WAY better! All the bullshit hang-ups society had are disappearing, and we're getting closing to a much more open playing field of expression for our personal pleasures. Why are you trying to stop that? For better or worse. The best we can do is embrace our ongoing sexual journey as humans and be open and safe about it. My problem with you is your refusal to admit you are not adapting to the trends and growing tastes in the sexual world. Your campaign and website are trying to put a stop to progression and evolution, and I think it's wrong. It is not awareness to make public light of these scenarios that are just current sexual trends because YOU personally don't follow them. If anything, its immature and pointless. Every 10-20-100 years there are new sexual fetishes that become more popular, that's been going on since the egyptians ruled. There's a time to "make love" and a time to "fuck, people aren't stupid. The only thing your doing is making women feel abused and used, and making men feel guilty. It's completely backwards. You should be empowering people with your platform, not weakening them. Let me make a point about my own father. He is a travel agent. His agency since I can remember ran on catalogues and published books. If you went to him to book a trip, he would open the proper book in a room piled with travel guides and price it out for you manually. About 10 years ago, the internet and computers began to change that, and most travel agencies ditched the books for new computers and booked and accessed immediate information online. At first, he refused to change and his business went downhill. He was forced to learn the new technology, but had a hard time adapting. As a result, the younger travel sharks took over the city and his business folded. Old model. Out dated. Now he can start a website saying "make paper not computer" but what's the point? He's a dinosaur in an old world. Either get with the times, or fall behind. Trying to change everyone else in the world just because YOU don't like it is only embarrassing. And that's what I saw in your performance. I respect your confidence (though almost overly confident), and your outfit was fantastic. I love the boots and the top. Your hair was great. You seem intelligent and self-aware. However, your message, again, was one-sided and too personal to be educational. If the current trends AREN'T your thing, more power to you. Enjoy your life the way YOU want. But don't publicly spray your musty Chanel No. 5 all over the place and brainwash all these younger audiences who are growing up in a time different than you did. Quite frankly, your old. And these kids are young. Porn is everywhere. Mouth fucking, gagging, saliva, anal, facials, and shaved vaginas are ALL COMMON now. I'm sorry you don't like it because you grew up with different things and these new 'expectations of men are SO weird!". But people get a kick out of it, and yes its more common, and yes it's a lot of fun! That being said, the one thing I agree with is your basic principle that everything should be discussed first! Yes! Of course. But isn't this obvious? Why waste internet real estate posting "some like it, others don't. Isn't that completely fucking obvious? Couples will find their way no matter what. Some 21 year old girls hate cum on their face. Good for them! Some like it. This is the premiss on your website. I don't see the point. Your motive is to try to convince people that it's BAD, and that it's a negative repercussion of the over-saturation of online pornography. Yes, we live in a time with porn is very easy to find. And that means we are seeing more of it, and new things. Sex is becoming more casual. And there are new trends. Please don't try to stop a generation from growing up and exploring their own culture. You had yours already. Let the world have their own.

Or what about the noises these porn woman make? And our youth does grow up watching these and learning about sex from them because too many parents are afraid to approach the subject or don't take the time and so I find myself at Walmart behind the 16 year old who is expressing to her other 16 year old friends how she was moaning all night in a passionate embrace with Johnny and screamed when she came twice! And I laugh to myself thinking, she watches way too much porn! Because as an older woman we know, at that age you can't even relax enough to come, let alone twice. And when you do? Come on.....nobody has beautiful orgasm face.

Hi there! I have an idea for another characteristic to add - communication! In porn, nobody is saying anything like, "does that feel good? would you like this faster or slower? where do you like to be touched?" or "would you like to try this?" or "I need more lube. That's a bit too deep." etc. because everyone already knows the script, lol. Communication in the bedroom is the quickest way to the best sex for both partners, but you'll never learn how to do that through porn! A lot of your "real world" descriptions say "some like it, some don't" but the point is, you'll never know what a person likes if you don't ASK. Great Website.

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Thank you for your TED talk. I felt as though my exact thoughts were verbalised and broadcasted with a force to impact the masses. I think there needs to be a reform on the mass media and the acceptance of the state of porn today. My only question is how do we make the change? Where do we start? What is there to do that can actually make an impact?

Perfeita frase! Em tempos como o nosso, onde tudo está banalizado, é possível usar essa campanha de modo positivo,mudando a cabeça dos jovens de hoje. Sou brasileiro e espero ter ajudado.

Alamo B. It's a weird world we live in where, porn is the probably the most infuential of form of sex education or "brainwashing" meant to imprint a generation with what sex is. Oh those poor kids growing into adult, they have no Idea what they are getting into. This is becoming not just me but both sexes. It's sad that the Idea of a "playboy" has been so inscribed it's becoming a installed false image of reality of america and also the world. We need to educate our young childern, and ignorant adult that sex, and relationships are way more than porn presents. We also just need better tools for understandin relationships and how to handle them. One book, one class, one person at a time.

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women get no say in it u cum wherever the hell you want and then send her back to the kitchen

I am at a loss about men and masturbation. I have known men who supposedly refuse to because they were raised to find it shameful. (I am reasonably sure they did it anyway just very privately). I have known a number of men who, if they don't have sex everyday, they must masturbate and they feel like it MUST be done. Of those men, some used the fact that they HAD to masturbate as their partner's fault (as if they are ashamed but they want to blame their partner). I used to be ashamed about masturbating. I thought it was something I did to make myself feel better but at the same time I felt self loathing. I finally told a counselor about it and we spoke at length about the subject and it helped. I no longer felt shame. I felt free to do it whenever I was alone and wanted to feel better. At some point partners wanted me to do myself in front of them and that was OK since I had gotten over my issues about it.

I love this website as I believe sharing things that have happened to me is healthy especially if I can help someone else who has had difficulties.

One of my ex's loved to receive oral sex and was quite persistent about requiring me to do it. I actually don't mind performing oral sex on a man, however, I cannot "deep throat" them so in the past I had compensated by using variouis techniques using my mouth tongue and hands skillfully. Many men in my past were happy with my technique even one that said he had never been able to come that way before, but not my ex, he saw it done in porn movies and so continued to grab my head and force himself further down my throat causing me to gag. Then he would act like everything was my fault.

I like this website; it is important. I have become a bit jaded about sex with men as I have had poor experiences and am middle aged. In my experiences men have done things like flicking my nipples or flicking my clitoris and it hurts me. I have asked men whom I have slept with not to do either and have been told, "Don't worry I know what I am doing". So, depending on the overall emotional grip each had on me, I allowed it and faked an orgasm to end it all quickly.

My boyfriend is a porn addict and not once in our two year relationship has he ever made love to me. Only fucked me and fondled me like I'm a porn star who's just happy being in the presence of a penis and groping hands. The sexual barrier has created a real tangible barrier in so many other areas in our lives. I don't know how much longer I can do this. Also.. in porn, women love giving head and some do in real life.. but WE ALSO LOVE GETTING HEAD. Our vaginas aren't just open fuck wholes, free and ready for the taking whenever you please. We need mental, physical and emotional stimulation!! God damn!

Kirk, Ruby is right. Only about 25% of cis-women can climax from vaginal penetration alone. Most cis-women require clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. I'm blessed enough to be able to climax from vaginal penetration, but not all women are and their partners should be aware of this.

Wow ruby, you're putting a very depressing view on most womens sex..... I dont agree with those statistics

i love coming in women mouths and have them suck my dick.but i cant find any.

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I always thought there was something wrong with me because I don't usually come during intercourse. I've just read that this is pretty common with women. Apparently this is because the clitoris isn't very close to the vagina. The report said that 75% of women need extra stimulation during intercourse to come. If you think about it, that makes perfect sense because women do pretend to orgasm to get it over with sometimes!

Both married couples stop being couples and end up just being married.The reason being the attraction,excitement and the relationship goes beyong just each other and the pace of life around individuals just over shadows everything.Time spent together become a luxury for all reasons u might think presumes ,at that time more important,and sadly within no time,Love between couples becomes the biggest victim.

I think more emphasis should be brought towards the issue of sex and marriage. Women, in my opinion, have become completely disengaged from their partner once kids have entered the picture, or after years of marriage. Bottom line, sex, like food, does not evaporate over time. If anything, enjoyment of sex becomes more sophisticated, appreciated and needed. I have spoken to many men and this view point is almost universal and has caused divorces. This absolutely just boggles my mind. That's why you end up seeing men with younger women, because many times, younger women are simply ALIVE and are open to sex being something they want - not give. What's even crazier, is I have found married men seeing prostitutes not because they want porn - but because they want a woman who will just talk with them and actually seem interested in them! Women think men are the assholes and fuck heads. I actually think it's the women who are seriously fucked in the head and who need an extreme wake up call - specifically in the area of marriage. Not the courting part of a relationship.

Porn is cool but kinda Dangerous,, it makes love unrealistic and make you lazy, it also stops the urge to make your partner happy sexually...

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I personally love the taste of a womans vagina after she orgasms. I personally do not prefer to ejaculate on her face because I myself love to kiss when i'm having sex . Sex with no emotional attachment is just not so good in my opinion. Cee

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Porn world: you get straight to pounding away like rabbits (all that shows me is you don't know what you're doing and clueless in the bedroom area). Real world: you actually let things flow naturally and if they get to that point then they do but you need to be on the same level with your partner, If people would only stop and listen (pay attention) to each others bodies and movements then they would probably have much better sex.

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The one thing that really helps make great sex, and the one thing all the above mythbusters have in common, is for gods sake talk to each other! Don't assume, find out what each other likes, if you want to explore then do so, but if you don't talk then there's no point even trying. I'm male and if I'm not comfortable enough with a girl to talk to her about sex honestly, then I wont sleep with her. Also, for the record, the concept of anal sex grosses me out and I really don't like insulting someone, in bed or elsewhere. To quote Peter Ustinov, "Sex is a conversation carried out by other means."

90 percent of hard porn follows the same script, with extremely minor variations. Couple kisses maybe once or twice; woman goes down on man for a very long time; man reciprocates for a minute or so; they then copulate, almost always in the man-on-his-back, woman on top, facing away from him orientation. If the video features anal then there's a lot of that. Clitoral stimulation throughout? Little to none. And the ending is ALWAYS the same... the man hastily pulls out, and masturbates until he comes all over her face. In my experience all of this has absolutely NO relationship to actual sex between real people. For some strange reason I find the very small portion of porn which actually DOES somewhat resemble real lovemaking, about 1000 times more entertaining/stimulating. Kissing, caressing, licking, tongue-sharing, et al. Lots of "small ball". The wham-bam part, sure. But that's really not it. Just go to one of the XYZtube.com websites, the above stupid pattern is abundantly clear. I guess the industry just needs to come on its own face and die (and blame the internet for killing it, of course!)

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This is so funny! A great discussion.

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Sory i m nt tlking about porn i m talking about love a beautiful realation of the world nd sex is dirty thing he fenish your oll realation to yur lve

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Recently as woman in my young twenties I have finally started to embrace my sexual personality. I ceased shaving my entire pubic region, started flaunting my teeny A cup "rack", and am comfortable enough with my body to not dim the lights during sex. In addition to loving my physical being, during the act of sex I am much more aggressive in getting what I want and how I want it. I'm no longer ashamed to ask to be choked. If my partner is doing something that ISN'T doing it for me, I can say, "Hey, slow down, let's try this." Confidence is, in my mind, the singularly most sexy quality and I think that's part of what people find appealing in porn. Porn actors are sexual beings confident enough to show off their bodies and perform in front of the masses - it doesn't get much more self assured than that! Since coming ino my own, I find myself with partners who go gaga over my small breasts and compliment my bush as I've been told, "It reminds me you're a woman and not a prepubescent teen!" Embrace your physical and sexual being and you'll end up having better sex with partners best suited for YOU.

There is nothing better than having sex with someone u really love, your desire for that spacific someone. Having sex just for the hack of it is just for locos! True love is the best thing u.ve ever experience. Laura

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love is much better than porn

i like love rather than porn. as porn is vulgar sort lived love is everlasting fun.

Watching porn would never help us to grow up even if we are going out wit someone or not. people who watches porn will reflect and focus what they see in his/her relation, and im not talking about ''innovations'',they will want a perfect man/woman like they see on the internet and they would never find him/her, so everything will go to hell because of the frustration that this made. It also takes in a vicious circle...starts with things like watching videos for fun, curiosity or whatever and ends with phone numbers, big folders in the computer...can anybody deny that this is addictive? Porn never helps to love someone, it only gloats over the selfishness. Sex is good, but is just a medium not an aim.

sex is only a part of life there is lot to explore in this world.....porn is just bull shit ....

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I think real women like to be kissed----passionately. My husband hasn't in such a long time that I literally don't remember what it feels like. I DON'T WANT EMOTIONLESS PORN SEX!!!

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I think every 1 should have to b loyal towards their partner.

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how about some more average porn? ie average size (5-6" willies) which around 80% of men possess. It can hard to fantasize properly if your seeing an unrealistic penis size in a film (Im talking about straight porn) and makes guys feel inadequate and not only that if the girls see this stuff aswell they might end up rejecting even more guys because of the willie size they are seeing in these films (which is happening in the states and might even be happening here to a lesser degree now) I also think opting in for porn in households is a fair idea. Keeping young males from viewing this stuff until their 18 is needed.

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"Spitters are quitters".... As long as we are in a male dominated society (don't think that's changing very soon)... Of course it is all personal preference... But, I think that women shouldn't use sex as a tool to get things or as leverage at all. And, if people are married (or in a relationship), then they should be having sex or better known as making love... (unless of course they've made it clear that abstinence is their choice). Oral sex must go both ways for lovemaking to truly be fun. So, men must learn about the beauty of the g-spot on women. And she should have more orgasms than he is, because she can (of course I'm talking about straight people) And, a woman is better at lovemaking if she learns to love giving head and even (if she chooses to) swallowing... Women come in 4 categories (in this arena) 1) women who won't give head 2) women who will only do it like once a year and must be asked 3) women who will willingly give head- enjoying it but won't swallow 4) Women who will not only swallow, but like it, love it. If you listen to men talk amongst themselves #4 is preferable... But, if they love you, then they will love whatever you decide. If they make you do stuff against your will, dump them.

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Part of making love should include doing what makes your partner happy. Both partners will at some point do things that might turn the other partner on. Doing this with enthusiasm certainly will add to the experience. Safe Sane and Consensual.

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Alot of guys think that the way you treat your woman in the bedroom is the same way you treat you woman in public. I don't know a lot of women who like to be mistreated in public. However they like to be roughed up in the bedroom. I do not want my husband grabbing my tits or making obscene comments to me in public, because then when he does it in the bedroom it makes me feel degrading. Men need to understand that just because they like something in the bedroom does not mean you can bring it up, or practice it in a public place without permission.

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i like this..Very interesting... good to see someone air this on the internet... it is needed... children are misguided by all the confusing messages they receive from the media and internet.

i like porn

Very interesting... good to see someone air this on the internet... it is needed... children are misguided by all the confusing messages they receive from the media and internet.

all wemon want is sex and to have their pussy fucked

saw cindy gallop lecture on fora.tv, great message and delivery , thanks!

I want to know what is this about!

Porn is like fast food, it is never really satisfying and there often is a quilty feeling of not focusing on the most important aspects of sex, intimacy, trust, and love.

In porn women have absolutely no problem being on top ALL the time while the guy just lays down there. Not true! My knees start to hurt and i get tired and then the fun in it just goes out the window.

i do like it when the woman suck on my cock the it goes all over her mouth and she licks it off very slowly

This is a GREAT site... People need this information!

Maybe I have a try.

Or sticking their penis between our breasts and trying to have sex that way. BORING!!!!!!! That does NOTHING for me!!

why man on porn always looks so ugly!!!?

Porn is all fine and good, but I still think some people need to learn to differentiate between porn fantasies and the real world. Know the difference between porno women who get paid to make it all look good and real women who have real feelings and thou

Thanks

I think there should be more free porn sites for women about making love- not just pure lust fucking.

I have done alittle over 25 porn films and out of experience the girls I fuck on film are the ones willing to do/try everything...not only because their getting paid but they think outside the box. So you average/normal girls, what I say to you is try eve

I love it

This is a great idea, and I totally love it!

Porn: Imagined then made for production. Reality: Imagined then made Better.

I think porn to people is a comparison of what they have at home to what they really want in a partner...

great

make*

...and the old and good idea: made love, not war! :)) it fits well

Performing oral immediately after receiving anal - um, no

Good

this is a seriously awesome website and idea. thank you for setting people straight.

I wish porn taught men about foreplay. My boyfriend could do with some classes.

i love to see , so that i can learn to do it with my boyfriend

Absolutely. You rock!

i difinatrly hate it

Try me

why in porn is so much ebonic-like talk, e.g. the use of phrase 'that pussy'?

I want porn to include erotic intimacy and romance. Love and sex were made for each other. Where the physical meets the spiritual.

pegging

Porn World: All gay men love anal sex and anal sex is really easy and always feels great. Real World: Not all gay men love anal sex. It takes practice and is rarely pain free.

porn world: gay men love sucking dick and are good at it. Real world: Some gay men prefer receiving to giving, and many who give it have no idea what they are doing.

Cindy, I would actually like to tie you down and shit on your face. Maybe get a little in your mouth.

Porn World: Men are always raring to go with raging boners Real World: Not so much, some men are more particular than others

yeah i think that we should be able to it in public im so horny right now

sorry

intelligent, simple and well presented... as good sex should be...

i love you

Since the dawn of time, the relationship between the 2 sexes has always been about a trade off of sex vs security. Ancient man hunter/gather/protector and ancient women wife/household keeper / bearer and child raiser. Nowadays ... things are alot blurry.

massage and foot fetish = amazing.

love for romance

good work cindy, every high school student on earth should hear your speel. x

This site is an awesome idea and long overdue!

so basically it is getting the right idea. Very nice move indeed

this is all true. porn is for the watcher. not for the real thing.

Great idea, a conversation we need to have.

Congratulations porn! You have ruined my life. I now resent the only person I have even been in love with and he resents me just as much. We fuck like animals. I love being tied up gagged,buttplugs...everything...I will never be good enough.

Porn lets the average guy/girl know exactly why their NOT porn stars!!

porn excites you, love moves you, porn is easy, love is a worth effort, porn tires you down, love energizes you

i just want to get some ideas for me and my boyfriend :)

porn is evil, porn affects both man and women, porn makes you less human, less romantic, porn eats your soul, porn washes your brain, porn replaces your girlfriend, porn takes your energy and time that you should spend with the one you love , porn takes y

i really love this site ... it is fun and great to reflect on what we consume and are exposed to, esp when it comes to one of the funnest, and most sacred excellent things in the world ... sex. go cindy & friends !

Love this website

I think is an issues of understanding between the two parties, and if they both like it then is all cool.

why are my long posts not here? where they censored or are long post directly erased? greats from tendernessy

the new selby shots are pretty much you huh. liking it a lot... mmmm the porn interior. painting porn. building porn. making porn. photographing and selling porn... selling porn ideas. does anyone write about the porn interior?

pron world: people are physically perfect and love to show it off real world: people can be, and requently are, uncomfortable with their bodies. Try to make your partner feel sexy rather than like a sex object.

The idea is good, but your language is awful ! Stop using slang words, and write better sentences ! It would help give a little more importance to the website ;)

the best site of the world thanks

porn is far away from real life

Porn actually gets me excited. I have it at the click of a mouse. Finding a woman is hard for me, not every woman is LIKE me or actually has the same interests as I do. At least with porn, I can get pleasure! ;)

Porn is much better than real sex.

Not an original thought, but you may want to address body image-both male and female. More than just genital hair is often depicted unrealistically, altering, along with many other facets of the media, beauty/sexiness in the bounds of health. Not just tha

porn vs real-life is pretty much like any other over-romanticized over-produced media vs reality. car-chases, dinner, fist-fights, quippy one-liners, romantic changes of heart, and the human spirit is never as glossy and awesome as movie producers and ad

real world is beautiful :) porn world is all about money

I like it

If the real world were like porn, I would turn of my computer to deliver pizzas and clean pools.

If you cant separate porn ad the real world without outside help or from this website, you are retarded.

Saw your lecture on TED. You Rock man !

Every man always want to fuck any woman, especially those those with dangerously long artificial fingernails, leather boots and black/red lingerie.

Porn can rob vitality while causing an unhealthy obssesion but because porn makes money it promotes itself rather than promoting a healthy sex life.

I like the idea behind your site. It would be great if it could be improved a bit. There%u2019s a need for a place like this on the net. I saw someone write that women would like to see a video scene where the guy does dishes for a while, then the couple

Porn world: little or no kisses or good caresses. Almost no love or tenderness. Real world: all the good things real love has to offer. Very intimate, compenetrate, healthy and worthy sex.

Have someone with a high school education proofread your site. There are a number of simple errors and it is hard to take you seriously.

This is a good site :)

Porn world: Men love ramming their penises into women hard and fast and women love it. Look at the way they moan and groan and cum over and over again! Real world: Those women are actresses getting paid thousands of dollars to play a role. Separate fant

porn is the best

I wonder how you select the NEW IDEAS about porn-real-wold. Do I miss something or are there really so few ideas around. I suggest that you are quite open to all intelligent ideas and let the readers judge democratically (e.g. more comments = higher gradi

Simple but good site!!!

'Driverslicence for women' by Dr. Frank Stahl, has lots of them

I am a PSHE(personal, social, health education) teacher at a school in the UK. This website is going to be really useful to add to the work and resources that we are already putting together for lessons to our 14 and 15 year olds. Another really great poi

porn world:hard core make love real world:beatiful make love

...porn is real or the real is porn ? : )

Thank you for the long-overdue insights! My sentiments exactly. Loved the TED talk.

well done from greece!

Well I think the information about sex are good for everybody.

make love is wonderful

everybody need to sex

Cindy, love what your doing - creating healthy conversations around sex.

hahaha

Sex is wet

this is real world

I agree everyone has their own opinion on sex.but i love it

I consider porno the art to make love... so i love real sex!

Porn world: ATM, Real world: Keep your poopsicle to yourself

Heteronormativity at its finest. Thanks.

oh yes!!!

In the porn world 90% of it is all about the female pleasing the male. She has to do all the work. In the real world making love its a two way interaction. Sometimes the female pleases the male, sometimes the male pleases the female equally.

I love forplay, having sex is super but its just i smal part of the houle packege, but i what i realy hate, (and i rearly use the word 'hate') is when whimen/girls chuse men that clearly are assholse in a grater sens of the word, this dick head brakes her

i wanna see

thank you

Hi Laura I like what you said

Real Porn World: Real men (and some women) need help becoming sexually aroused. Real women (previously abused women disproportionately) participate in creating extremely degrading dehumanizing depictions of themselves. Real men and women consume this miso

i agree

Hi I want love sweet girl and she love me... this is my number 0092-3233137387

I agree with James! Not a big fan of the blow-J!

love

I watched loads of porn and now I am totally fucked up

sex is really great

I saw this on TED

say yes!!

i love sex but hate blowjobs yea im a dude i just htink its weird a girl suck ur dick come on jus stick in there!!! xD

Wow. An educated world!

I love this site and will send it to many people

The increasing oppressive, dominant, and violent nature of porn is a reflection of the psychic violence and oppression that is manifesting within each individual. People are not born to be domineering and oppressive, they are indoctrinated by the world

Another thing I think guys get from watching porn is thinking hard and fast sex is the only way to go. I do enjoy it hard sometimes, but variation is the key. If your only do it hard and fast it gets repetitive and boring. Its nice to have sweet and lovin

The act of making love is multi-faceted, dynamic and directly related to the those individuals involved. Mainstream porn essentially shows the same thing, every time; that is to say, there may be variations regarding what is being shown, but it is simply

a new comer

well hello there.nice site

Are there ladies needing to make love?

hello

aloha everybody!!:)

yes they do

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love the bukkake stick figure XD 8====> to find out more ask the japanese (tak)

you should put up one about ass to mouth! its the best but i wouldnt want to taste my own ass yet alone some guy/girls ass. but i would love to make a chick do it! dont know why>

good idea and initiative, but the website is rubbish, the advice is rubbish, and its very small.... what kind of project is that ? theres great and useful potential

I applaud your nerve, AND your great apartment.

pornography -- Creative activity (writing or pictures or films etc.) of no literary or artistic value other than to stimulate sexual desire. Sensual / erotic writing/pictures/films etc etc are not pornographic. There is however nothing wrong with stimulat

good website and will pass on to any one as i could.

your gay, cum on face is ace

want to know how to make love

worst site design ever !

I as a man am disgusted by the idea of having to cum on her face.

Great initiative!

u = weiner alastair

A year after it was launched, this site is just totally stupid and useless : a TED idea !

Porn world : When a man catches a woman masturbating he automatically wants her to blow him and she gladly agrees in a matter of seconds and starts going at it Real world : When (if) a man catches a woman masturbating she screams and cover herself up whil

and a translation mechanism to the site!

Porn World: There are no true lesbians, they are all bisexual. Real World: There are women who only enjoy having sex with women.

Porn World: Women enjoy sex at any and all times of the day as long as initiated by or for a man who is constantly trying to find sexual satisfaction. Real World: Initiating sexual interactions with women is not the sole preoccupation of men, and women re

talk about positions Porn: 20 different positions in 3 minutes real life: you get the idea

The fundamental difference between porn and real-world noncommercial sex: Porn is a performance put on for others, and the enjoyment of the participants is not a consideration. Sex in the real world is for the pleasure of the people actually having sex.

This site is really great idea, I like it very very much! I heard from ted.com about it. thanks!

i wanna make a porn :D

I would have never even thought of this until I saw it in a porn movie.

http://www.smbc-comics.com/index.php?db=comics&id=1142#comic

i appreciate porn,cause real love is dead since the dawning of the future in 2006

Porn world: They get satisfied for a moment, but a few weeks later, they will feel empty and ashame. Real world: The best way to enjoy sex is in a sentimental relationship, knowing that you love that person and that person loves you too.

I was lucky enough to find a girl who actually asks for the cum on her face. Its hot when both partners enjoy it - not hot when she makes a face or obviously is just putting up with it. though hot sex can also include making the fantasies of the other p

make love is better

she want a pearl necklace (see Pearl_necklace_(sexuality) and Pearl_Necklace_(song) on wikipedia)

porn world: guys love blowing it all over chicks faces. real world: guys love blowing it deep inside their partners vaginas. you pick the greater evil.

Porn World: Women loved to be abused by sadistic men. Real World: Most women want to be treated with respect and sensitivity.

Porn World: Vibrators and toys can bring a woman to screaming multi-orgasms. Real World: Vibrators and toys can bring a woman to screaming multi-orgasms.

Porn World: All women want to kiss, finger, eat, fuck other chicks, and also want to be kissed, fingered, eaten, fucked by other chicks. Real World: Many women are actually just into men, or even just into twosomes, and prefer being interacted with to put

I am live in a real world! I look 2-3 christian girl (21-30 year) for polygamous family. BIG LOVE is a real love in the faith!!

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i am 25

As a male of 83 years, I think you have hit on a very important topic. When watcing porn, as soon as it gets to the face shot, I hit the key to end the film. That is not love or love-making. Good for you for starting this site.

some ppl like hair? name a few ... who like hair vs no hair ... and we`re not talkin` about a guy`s bald head

do normal women like the taste of semen? is it normal for men to cum in their mouth?

PERFECT!!! Amazing action!!!

GET MARRIED, make love to your wife or husband, enjoy a God fearing righteous sex life.

One need not be in a relationship to enjoy healthy sex, but one does need a partner who is adult enough to be honest with him/her self and you. In both sex and relationships in general genuine communication is necessary if it is to work correctly. And one

To each their own. That being said, without sex education men and women will continue to be grossly uninformed about sex,sexuality,sexual orientation, and contraception. Most porn sex is bad sex ....using outdated and/or unrealistic sexual stereotyping th

If you watch porn with the intent to learn how to please there is much to learn there. It is obvious that ejaculation in the face is often negatively recieved even by the porn stars.

It strikes me that >> men who want to touch themselves during orgasm rather than continue the movement that is bringing about the orgasm are creating a distance at a 'peak' moment; instead of truly engaging in the wave of pleasure and associating that ple

Porn world: The anus is clean enough to eat off of; women enjoy putting something that was just deep in their ass in their mouths. Real world: The odds that a woman will enjoy (and be hygienically prepared for) this are so slim that men should wait for h

make love

Fuck cuming on the face. I go right in the mouth!

This is a great idea. I would love to hear what you think about Bondage and disapline. Dominace , submission.

Hey mine is average at best - but it dont stop me having fun

as a teenager i was worried that my penis was too small, i thought i had to buy a penis pump. my girlfriend at the time who was more experienced than me reassured me it was normal size but i found it hard to believe her at the time.also i had a friend at

Thanks for making this website!!!

Coming from a gay man, it is sooo true that men think this way---also coming from the idea that I have had sex with a so called 'straight man' and the excessive saliva in every direction was very displeasing and overwhelming, and I hope not to come across

I think this site is brilliant, not only for younger people but for sex addicts and even pornstars themselves. What a great way of making people see theres another side of the story. This really needed to be done a long time ago :)

I do agree this is a brilliant site, but am wondering, why there should be this 18 year limit... Boys at least start looking for porn much more erlier (I had for instance :P, if i recall right, it is just as puberity starts..)

YES YES YES OH YESSS OH MY GOD YESSSS YESS YES!!!

Rodrigo G. says... To make love is to sum up two bodies in one purpose: bring heaven closer in a cofounded breath. To have sex and view porn is to degrade our human condition into a savage and demonoid arrangement of pesimist thoughts, the impact of evil

Porn world: High school teachers, especially females have sex with their students all the time. Max hardcore picks up little girls in playgrounds. Real world: Pedophiles end up in jail.

I hope this also helps target ageism with short or long term sexual relationships between consenting adults (18 in my opinion)-- if such a thing can be non-related to status, most notably financial.

girls feel that they are supposed to live up to this 'porn star status'. our country has infected something that can be such a beautiful thing. girls allow themselves to be degraded and humiliated because they believe it is what is SUPPOSED to happen. its

OK - SOME people like it, SOME dont.... Just like with EVERYTHING else. If someone needs explaining that they dont have to like something and cant stand up for themselves, they deserve all the butt fucking, gagging and spitting in the world for not saying

Too little content...

We can save millions from abuse, unwanted pregnancies and STD! We need to break the taboo already!%uFEFF

This site needs more content...there isnt much to keep me here that wasnt in the youtube vid from Ted.

Is this an actual problem? I had no idea people were this dense in the bedroom.

While I agree about the whole porn thing, something should also be done about young girls (under 16) that dress up in miniskirts or showing and show off their bosoms.

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You have to be willing to give and take - whatever you want - she gets what she wants its easy

The first time I had sex with my girlfriend she insisted on anal!

The first four times I had sex with my current girlfriend it was anal every time = her idea not mine!

As a 25 year old male, I can tell you from first hand experience, that my generation does not know what is appropriate or inappropriate in the bed room. Sex in America is still seen as taboo and is still taught and approached from a puritan 'sex is evil'

i agree with her i started watching porn at a young age

http://forum.ifeelmyself.com/forum/viewtopic.php?id=5869

Every time I have had sex it has been more wild than porn so lol to each his own rite

With my body I thee worship. Somebody said that once, and I think it pretty much works everytime.

Good it is!

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Good TED talk.

As a man I quite enjoyed porn directed by Anna Span, without facials. But when women look average and guys look good, I quite understand how women must feel watching perfect looking girls having sex with bald guys with a potbelly

T - I have had an opportunity to do some research on this subject and have been disappointed in what I have found. I cannot seriously watch a porn without dissecting it and analysing it. I am horrified at the lack of respect for men and women as well as

Everyone I have ever had sex with has been heavily influenced by porn, and I have yet to feel physically, emotionally and spiritually gratified while having sex.

manjir is out there!!

Personally, I like the 'degradation' that porn has influenced into our bedrooms, I think that doing these things can be an act of devotion and trust. Thats what makes it sexy!

Good Idea for a website. I agree that a woman should feel ENTIRELY free to say no to having a semen facial. It is not her right or her duty to enjoy or submit to that.

Porn World: women all love and will beg for anal sex. Real world: not so much, so stop telling us how every woman loves anal when *you* do it!

Just have to say - well done, bravo. The amazing dimensions of loving open sex are being obscured by the power plays that porn provides. Sex can take you on cosmic journeys - something ancient mystery schools were aware of. I hope everyone reading this co

Smart couples should watch porn just to copy the types of positions.... not for the reactions

Thats very certain because even the women in porn getting the come on their faces look like as if they are doing it at the gunpoint.

Women have an abiding interest in sex and are open and to the point about their desires. They express their desire by immediately focusing on whatever appendage or orifice is 'de jour' Real Life: Many women are rarely or at least infrequently interested

Hey! Why so heterocentric?

Porn is the only 'love making' available on the Net. Had there been enough 'healthy' resources available on love making, they would have given porn makers a run for their money. The situation reminds of the monopoly debate - porn has monopoly on the Net o

This site has made my day. i must say, I have been doing a lot of research into the porn industry lately and, as a lover of sex, I am heart broken. I am worried about the future of sex!! Capitalism is ruining it. I went looking for porn last night, and AL

I luv porn that looks like the actors are enjoying each other. respect

nothing to comment but great page very different

funny how men seem to think women like to be degraded. i think women for the most part are total chumps who just do what they think will make a man like them.

Some people enjoy having sex in front of an entire camera crew and some people enjoy having sex in the privacy of their own bedroom

Most younger men believe that it is a way to show respect to your sexuality!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Si a webooo... el porn es el porn !

thanks TED thanks Cindy

What a wonderful site!

cant agree more...Nice idea...

porn world: women need multiple orgasms and hours and hours of hard sex to be satisfied real world: yes, this can be amazing. However, after orgasm women (just like men!) often need a rest!

Damn I guess people will believe anything the see on tv. Good thing there is home movies.

So True. Most of the enjoyment of cum on someones face has to be for the sheer novelty and visual stimulation as popularized by main street porn. Not too popular with any of my partners of forty years. A former sex partner offered the opportunity to cum i

Well lets admit for scientific fact only if you may but men are more thinking about sex than women and if men form a viewpoint about sex it would be much more powerful to influence a men women sexual intercourse and hence, I do not mind what is going on i

I like to come on a girls ass

Why did pubes disappear?

I like to **** a woman in love with me in a way she like it and never forget. Who think the ******* means fuck is wrong. Right word is a pleasure!

So what? Maybe we should all watch porn so that sex will be better. I like porn, so does my wife and all my girlfriends and boyfriends. So what?

Great site - great idea

porn world: all women like to be spanked; real world: most women like to be spanked ;-)

Really as seen by the laughters at TED during your speech - I believe this is contra society movement as it takes place. But maybe worth to try?

Porn World: All women scream, preferably obscenities. Real World: Many women are so overcome by their orgasm and exploring it mentally that they forget to say anything. But - they are very happy about that!

How awesome! Thanks so much!

porn : yeah, yeahh, ARRGGGHHH! real : that was wonderfull, i love you...

In porn its all about the man. In Real life it should be balanced, a sense of giving and receiving. Like so many things, porn sex is selfish. Love is never selfish.

Porn world: Creepy mustaches. Real world: Shave those scary-ass mustaches!

I dont know this happen, I think a man knows very well that his sperms stink, and of course his partner..

Misconception: all women enjoy their asses being slapped during sex. Reality: Check first with the woman, or you might end up being slapped back!

Women enjoy having their pussies and clitorises 'slapped.'

is cindy gallop your porn name?

if you put semen on my skin, you ought to be able to lick it up. if you think of your cum as something disgusting and gross, grow up, and stop degrading me with it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FV8n_E_6Tpc&feature=sub

I like the idea, but as some people say, concrete numbers are needed!! Because I Think that it would be Helpful to stand in position and influence from there.

Im a lady and I believe that a man should have the right to cum on your face.

This site is one of the most amazing things I have ever seen on the internet. Thank you.

thanks to the old bitch for the funny TED talk. I think TED is losing its credibility day by day by inviting such pricks to the channel.

lol in the butt

How about the jackhammer pounding? That is what always irritates that crap out of me. It is like the guy is using his cock to break up old concrete from a road that is being torn up for sewer work, And the women is lying there with these fake expressi

Some men are sensitive about sex as well. Not all of us are pigs who like to fuck all the time. Yes, we probably get aroused much faster than women, but some of us actually like foreplay as well.

Porn world: the guys cock needs to be 12 inches long and 5 inches thick to stand a chance of pleasuring a woman Real world: its not the length of the wand, but the skill of the wizard! or words to that effect :-P

(last time)Its not important to know what everyone else thinks.Its important that 1) you have an opinion 2) your partner has an opinion 3) each of you know each others opinion and 4) each of you respect those opinions

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Boy do the men in Japan need this site. Please make this site multilingual or crosscultural. Fantastic education no matter what the country.

I can not agree more with the ideas presented here. I hope this will have a big impact.

Excellent. Hope this goes from strength to strength.

Great idea for the website! However, i think 'some women like this, some women dont' statement is alittle bit vague. To me it sounds like a 50/50, which I feel is not the case. It would be nice to have some concrete numbers to give a better idea.

hi

This is a very good start. I will be sending this link to everyone I know.

Excellent initiative. Congrats!!!

Anyone who wears a t-shirt with a picture of a girl embracing white tadpoles is a tad... odd.

Great initiative! Now, off to spread this to everyone who may need to read it, so...yeah. About half? I shall, at least, endeavour to give this t-shirt to a friend or two for christmas!

I think that people should get out and experience sex, rather than watch porn. I also feel terribly sorry for the ladies that put up with men cumming all over their faces.

Fantastic! Keep up the good work!

When with a girl, some of them start with the assumption that I like it wild, with biting, ass-slapping and animalistic screams of pleasure. But I like the total opposite, I even prefer if my partner is silent in bed and do not move around like she is pos

wow, really liked it! thumbs up, keep working!

audioguy: Speaking for myself, I love getting orally pleasured, but I would never want my partner to go down on me if he did not want to for whatever reason.

What is the difference between me not wanting to put my face in your vag, but doing it because I know you enjoy it, and you not wanting to participate in a facial, but doing it because you know I enjoy it?

love it!

Yes, yes. I have a male friend, otherwise relatively enlightened, who insists that 'facials' are an act of love. If a woman loves her man, she shows it by happily allowing him to ejaculate on her face.

I wrote a monologue for a show I was in during college that fulfills this very idea! I have it linked here: http://tericarl.livejournal.com/10569.html#cutid1 I changed a line or two but yes! And I performed it a few years ago!

I wrote a monologue for a show I was in during college that fulfills this very idea! I have it linked here: http://tericarl.livejournal.com/10569.html#cutid1 I changed a line or two but yes! And I performed it a few years ago!

Thank you! I have been trying to convince my peers that this is a serious issue in modern sexuality for years.

its insane that love making is associated with all these pathetic sexual antics, love making is something more than sex, and its something that happens at that moment, where u surrender urself to that one person, where the passion is so uncontrollable tha

This is nice.. one must make love.. Not porn.. Watching porn men have gone wild and that is what reflects in their attitude.. all the time.. This is a good step. I appreciate it.. Keep up the good work

I really love this page. Keep up the good work.

How about shooting a porn movie which is more like making love. Alternative sex scripts. It would be easier to compete with the dominate hard core porn sex scripts in people%u2019s minds already. What about the impact of solo porn on relationships ? Wha

I like coming on bitches faces. You stupid opinionated cunt.

i have a song ( 15 ) 6 hope this site can help him to understand the steps to a better relation in his near future... : )

gay version =p !!

Clicked over expecting the same old anti-porn, pro-censorship schpiel -- and am very pleasantly surprised! Thrilled and definitely sending the link to many, many friends.

I am so glad this website exists... maybe there is a way to present the same thing in sex education classes... and hopefully a gay version too :)

Great Website!

love

girls want to feel sexy before they make love - thats why i set up my business to make sex sexy and elegant, check out www.aphroditegifts.co.uk . Sex should be sexy & we should make the effort before we make love. thats when the magic happens.

Coming on the face is OK for play sex but serious, get your rocks off sex, requires shared contact during a good orgasm in my view.

I do love women. Everything the women have is nice to enjoy, to see, to watch, to touch, to smell, to taste, to feel, and to ........//

I want what ever nothing

me gustaria que sea un sitio de lo mejor

women dont like to get their face dirty

i like both

looking for Love

love it

So wheres the porn??

i like this

love is without time...porn is without love!

love is love

whats next

i like this site.

nice site

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I think come in that context is spelled cum.

REAL WoRLD great!!!!!!!!!

great

it can be degrading behavior, but in passionate love making not so, intention-heart is the key

Porn is awesome and really addicting.

i think it is human nature to have sex, every body can not stand the the attraction of sexuality. In CHINA, there is a motto goes like this: to be a good man, it is better not to be sex-indulged but sex attractive.

PORN IS BUSSINES . MONEY . YOU CAN BE FORCED TO SEX AND PORN , BAD THING. TO LOVE AND MAKE LOVE IS HEAVENLY . GOOD SITE .

very funny and sexy

I could like to see make love

I want to see make love

yup... personal choice

I like women and I im A women to

no comment

makelove

its good at times

need friend all so my love too

love all sexy lady

makelove

wow this is really amazing, what a sophisticated and effective communications strategy. No, really. Seriously. Not. Not at all.

He says he loves the way I look and wants nobody but me but watches porn of women that look nothing like me. It makes me feel unattractive and unappreciated. He watches porn and jerks off a few times a week but has sex with me once or twice a month.

make love

i want look for expreince .

Do men like it when women scream during sex?? Women do you scream during sex??

A proper relationship has three parts - Man, woman, and God.

super idea

Check us out and see that you can infact blend both together perfectly, but it takes chemistry and alot of trust and compassion and a total willingness to please one another and the viewer! www.caseynjennifer.com

Porn is not love, french are good in doing love.

It takes both porn sex and making love to make a relationship work. I enjoy porn sex but it can get exhausting and boring all the time if I have to perform for my guy. He has to build up my emotional tank once in a while and Real love to me for me to cont

i like that

this site is more for adolescents than for adults, from my point of vue...

It takes both porn sex and making love to make a relationship work. I enjoy porn sex but it can get exhausting and boring all the time if I have to perform for my guy. He has to build up my emotional tank once in a while and Real love to me for me to c

really agree with it !!!!

Brilliant idea to compare Porn Movies and Real Experience. Educating is key, since all our past education was based only on chance. Chance can offer best and the worst reference experiences, that we keep all life long. Educating using what adults found (P

yeah right this is very important. for all evangelics and mormons around the world. Stop focusing about porn, sex, it becomes really annoying for people with a bit of jugement. An last but not least, stop considering porn as an evil thing .

this is veryv important for teenage all around the world, in africa europe America asia, sexual education have his place in school for teenage, we have to figth agains pornograph and educat teenage about love end sexuality, make love not porn not war

really agree with it !!!!

true !

Based upon input from several women; it is about a 50/50 split. My personal research supports your findings. Also; I believe the generally accepted spelling is 'cuming.'

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Now now Adrian Turner, you realy should rephrase that! my wife loves it, its her biggest turn on. Saddely to say i have difficulty doing this, but still. oh! and my women love sucking my cock after its been in her pussy! so realy! it all depends on the wo

It is a total myth that coming on faces is erotic. It is just an act of male domination over women. The sight of women getting excited by a man pulling out of her vagina and spurting, sometimes with some difficulty, is just totally unreal. If you find a

Who is behind this website? It continues to peddle myths around porn that 1. viewers are unable to distinguish between fantasy and reality 2. that exposure to porn is changing sexual behaviour in a negative way 3. that one form of sexual expression is mo

this site changed my life

Good for study. I would like to know your suggestion.

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creators of this site need to realize is that porn is just a fantasy world kind of thing. Many people know the difference between real sex and 'reel' sex. Unfortunately some men learn

creators of this site need to realize is that porn is just a fantasy world kind of thing. Many people know the difference between real sex and 'reel' sex. Unfortunately some men learn

This site has many many valid points. But what the creators of this site need to realize is that porn is just a fantasy world kind of thing. Many people know the difference between real sex and 'reel' sex. Unfortunately some men learn how to have sex thro

I personally love it.

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Porn is a very visual thing! I mean the people watch it and think so must sex be! I would like to make a Erotik Movie, not Porn, with real Erotik, where you can see how the love, take care of each other and not just fucking the dry pussy dryer! For start

dirt or clean love ?choose what you like and she ( or he ) love

dirt or clean love ?choose what you like and she ( or he ) love

You know, the same goes for a guy to guy thing

i need to see what it have and to look if ilike it

if your girl doesnt like sucking your dick, too bad. some girls love the cock, and sucking dick turns them on. everyone is different.

YES I AGREE

i hate it it makes me sick lol and my husband dont like it eather

Once again, even in porn this is does nothing for me. I would never do this in the real world because I love women.

i think its ok!

LOVE IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF SEX

No my wife hate it if I cum on her face but loves if I do in ne her pussy or mouth

my boyfriend right before he cums i take as much as i can so he cums all in my mouth and its easier to swallow. today he came 5 times in my mouth. alot of cum drinking i know but i got some treats to so its all good.

my wife likes it when i ram her hard after she has an orgasm.

making love is all about sharing ur real feeling with your love one, letting them treasuring ur body while porn is in the moment, those feelings are played by the mind

semen is generally hard to remove from hair and can sting ones eyes.

Great sex can really make you open to doing things you may never have thought of doing. It is especially wonderful when the person you are having sex with is really into you. It is all about establishing that comfort and really getting into the groove.

exactly sum love it some think its degrading i choose the women that love it

i just like to make love

oh come on.. every woman likes comming on her face!!!!

@fivestar You need to share the revolutionary porn companies so we all can get off to more than cum on the face shizzle.

that is totally true most woman dont really like to suck cock but love to be licked Ay men to that brotha i kno what you mean

all bird like to having there pussies licked

I disagree...all guys like to do it if they can.

most woman dont really like to suck cock but love to be licked

check out http://www.ManandWife.TV they give brilliant advice on all these topics and are really funny as well!! i would not let a stranger in...it might ruin your marriage pS

Hi just wondering my wife and i have been talking about her having a stranger fuck her ,would this screw up our marriage .

Some women like to be in the porn world abusing love and sex for fun but I will cover both sides of the plate by saying this, sex is the tool God uses in marriage to repopulate the Earth and is the only way not to abuse it and not use sex in the way God i

question for all u ladies out there ,my wife and i share a great sex life ,i am wondering if anyone else like to use a vibrator and or a dildo after they have had multiple orgasms with there spouse,as well do they like it when there husband or lover is wa

do women love having an orgasm on a mans face ????????????????????

this would be a lot more effective if it included porn...I would look at it longer

i hate it on my face, but in my mouth is okay.

No Porn Is not bad, What is Bad is when your man is in the other room Jacking off to porn while your in the room down the hall and he would rather jack off to watching porn then doing the wild thing with his gal pal. Thats a shame!

the site is educative

never done it dont plan on it i prefer loving my partner

it all seems weird and animalistic, to me - I generally just avoid sex altogether.

blech

I think this one is perfectly acceptable, providing the man asks first. Personally, I love it when my man shoots his load on my stomach and tits

This is about dominance and the degradation of the woman.

How many straight men would love semen smeared over their face?

This site could do with an RSS feed

Attended TED2009 and LOVED your 3 min talk that introduced the site. Love the simple framing of your idea of porn vs. real world. Reminds me of the 'Axiomatic' piece by Eve Sedgwick Kosofsky. She writes ignorance 'competes with knowledge' for control over

My GF likes me to cum on her tits or stomach. I love it as well.

Ethyl said: ' I am a sexist man who hates PRON!!???! ' Hey! How can a person misspell PORN ??

As a note to those who disbelieve, I enjoy it...

Yeah, but i know for a fact that all women love to swallow MY cum - you can´t disprove that.

No really. NO women like it, but as long as they are told some do, they will be bullied into being one of the some.

Never met a girl that wanted me to and might be hesitant if she wanted me to....

Each person is different. How many rocket scientists do you have working on this?

i like to do it, my girlfriend doesnt, i will normally blow my load in her face or in her mouth when she isnt expecting it

I prefer to drink it. Why waste all of that good protein?

These are painfully sexist.

Sex is a thing of two, so, before asking to your partner to do unusual sex practices, think about if you would like to do that. Make an effort for the partner and u will be happy. No sucking without licking! Commercial sex is made from and to males! So un

Mr. Obvious strikes again!

I have to say, when you are having real sex, the last thing you really want is to finish yourself off (I believe this can go for either sex)

I just read the comments by people - seriously the comments these people make only reinforce how ignorant and brainwashed they are from watching porn instead of having actual sexual experaince with other people.

Come on. Every woman loves when you come on their face!

I love it, I know some of my girlfriends would never. I have always enjoyed a little role play. Sometimes I am the aggressive women other times I like to be subjugated. I want to feel it on my eyes in my hair and I love it when it drips off my cheek and c

I like to do this for some reason, but only if she is up for it. :)

Interesting to see the divide between the women who are attacking all men for being the issue; and the few that accept that we are all different and some like all kinds of things.

I think you really make a ridicule of the female, total depreciation of her......I think women dont like it!

I am a female. I like to come on faces.

In the real world, sex is not just between a man and a woman.

I am a sexist man who hates PRON!!???!

This site has a good aim but it seems like mostly sexist men are commenting who are all about porn aka viewing videos that degrade women and are aimed at pleasuring men.

This whole site coming down to one thing: talking with your partner. NO SHIT SHERLOCK.

cant see much of a healthy motivation for wanting semen on your face, sorta like spitting, the spit isnt gross but the act of literally defacing a person is.

PW: Porn can be art. Porn can be useful. RW: Sex can be boring at times.

What is porn? Eh?

This site is extremely emo.

PW: Breasts are hard as a rock and move that way. RW: Breasts are squishy and move that way.

Porn World: Nobody watches porn. Real World: Yeah, well...

With a proper diet, the whole swallowing thing can be less of chore and guess what, NO CLEANUP!

Thank God for porn

well yeah, but porn is a visual medium, coming in a vigina is not exactly visually exciting

This is a great site idea. Pure truth.

infact now u will see rise in ppl visitin porn site..lol

Seems like the people who could benefit most from this discussion are the under 18 set. Too bad they are 'prohibited' from seeing this.

Awesome idea for a site ....waaaayyy overdue.

I love the initiative!

Porn World: Americans are really hot in bed. Real World: When it comes to sex they spend all their time talking about it and making websites like this one but very few are actually doing it, and the ones who are have as much passion as lab scientists.

How stupid do you have to be to take ANYTHING on the left for granted, even after consuming thousands of hours of porn before ever doing the real thing...

Bahaha! Love it. As someone who is generally pro-porn in concept, I love the deconstruction and comparisons. Porn is FANTASY sex, people :P

I just love that Fivestar is defending the porn industry. :) A few rouge porn companies does not an industry make.

I agree!

I think all men would love to get away with coming on a womans face. Women would do anything for their man...some women would do anything to anyone just for attention...it all depends. Women are freakier than they seem...

This site is a gross generalization of the porn industry. Although, there is truth behind how many porn companies suck there are some amazing and revolutionary porn companies that are challenging this assumption.

I wonder how many of those in the real world like this because they saw it in the porn world?

love this site! lol

You spelled 'cumming' wrong